他又出新专辑了！这次叫《魔杰座》，现在才真正的去听里头的歌，之前和他在从他家会PJ的路上听到这首—说好的幸福呢？那时，他还给了一大堆负面的评语！直到最近，他来到我家接我出去吃晚餐，用他的手机，放了这首歌，告诉我，他最近爱上这首歌 =.=
《稻香》还真是一首蛮不错的歌…前天，他还要求我用mp3cutter 帮他cut了corus那一部份作为ringtone…还不错哦！
我自己也把它set为msg tone…一响起的时候，还真的是很好听下～哈哈．．．
昨晚，和五个久违的大学同学出来喝茶，我们先后到达sec 17的old town café…那时才不到八点钟~大家真的好久没见了！
我们还是无所不谈，可是，最热门的话题还是提到了‘工作’，‘薪水’…和目前的生活！好像各有各的精彩！大家你一句我一句，好吵的一桌女人！哈哈…
还有一个有趣的现象，我们六个女生，分两排坐，形成了两个三角形，一个三角形已名花有主，另个三角形却还在‘好高鹜—帅’哈哈
工作篇
好像据大家的言谈中，我的工作是最‘理想’的那个！其实，论及薪水，给一般的打工族来说是蛮高薪的吧！但如果要和那些做collection或做sales的比，就差还远啦！只是自己的工作属于比较自由，然后也比较有自主权的，最重要，上司和老板都是蛮不错的人！所以，工作开心点！
包括自己的家人，和身边的朋友，都叫我要好好保留现在这份工作，固定加薪10%++，花红X个月，公司给于德特别福利+优惠…很多很不错的‘优点’…上班时的那种‘轻松’（有时真的怕变办公室马铃薯）夹杂有时的‘繁忙’（到我饭都不想吃那种压力程度）…
其实我也蛮想explore一些新的东西，像appraisal当天，我直接告诉老板！’I find my job very boring.. always do the same things, over and over again…anyway, I’ll make myself comfortable …’ 这应该就是Gen-Y的思想！知道什么是Gen-Y吗？81年到当下的新生代都被称为Gen-Y….上网去考察下吧！你会发现，我们都是‘非常Gen-Y’！！！
还好上司是个非常motivated的老板！你告诉他一些negative或passive的东东，他都很有能力的以他最专业的motivated-minded来开解你的思想！appraisal出来后！！我真的要乖乖下了！
姐弟恋篇
我这才发现，原来我们81年的女生都出现不少同样的趋势—-姐弟恋~~~~哈哈~~~我的最厉害~小我足足四岁！！而另一个友人的小两岁；哈哈~其中一个朋友也声称，和她同龄的一般朋友，男朋友多数也是小1岁，至少。。。
那天，在langkawi看‘新闻报报看’的结尾报道关于姐弟恋也说到了，70%的欧美人都接受！当然啦！同性恋，异族恋，就连忘年恋，连父女恋都接受和一再发生，更何况那么微不足道的‘姐弟恋’．．．哈哈～我蛮同意的就是他们报道说被小过自己的男生看上的女生会特别有自信~哈哈~~~~有段时间我还很懊恼自己身边为什么都是小男生！
可是也不以为然，年龄不是问题，最重要是思想！我见过三十多岁的男人，思想完全好像没经过开发般，或者是单纯幼稚的言行举止真的叫我叹气！
男人篇
男人女人都一样，最重要的还是品德修养!又再好的背景再好的外形装饰，没有内在的修养和最基本的品德，那真的是叫人无言以对…
我很欣赏有理想有斗志有主见的男生！言谈举止都充分发挥自己的修养和品德，加上presentable的外表，在适当的时候能以适当的态度和言行面对不一样的人，更是高人！不是‘奸诈’，当今社会是很需要这样的人才！以前，说到不好听就是‘见人说人话，见鬼说鬼话’….
今天我读了一篇衣猫，关于‘what’s love means?’..是个调查，4-8岁的幼童的答案，而不是当下青少年或情窦初开的小弟弟小妹妹们~他们的答案，既然是可以那么出任意表，既然可以那么的真实！有些孩子的答案，我看了还会偷笑笑，觉得可爱，但是很对，我想，比他们活多十到二十年的我们也未必会给到那么真实且意义颇深的答案！我们该自叹不如，又或者真的是后生可畏….
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What does ‘Love’ mean?
A group of professional people posed this question to a group of 4 to 8 year-olds, ‘What does ‘love’ mean?’
The answers they got were broader and deeper than anyone could have imagined. See what you think:
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‘When my grandmother got arthritis, she couldn’t bend over and paint her toenails anymore.
So my grandfather does it for her all the time, even when his hands got arthritis too. That’s love.’
Rebecca- age 8
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‘When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different.
You just know that your name is safe in their mouth.’
Billy - age 4
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‘Love is when a girl puts on perfume and a boy puts on shaving cologne and they go out and smell each other.’
Karl - age 5
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‘Love is when you go out to eat and give somebody most of your French fries without making them give you any of theirs.’
Chrissie - age 6
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‘Love is what makes you smile when you’re tired.’
Terri - age 4
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‘Love is when my mummy makes coffee for my daddy and she takes a sip before giving it to him, to make sure the taste is OK.’
Danny - age 7
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‘Love is when you kiss all the time. Then when you get tired of kissing, you still want to be together and you talk more.
My Mummy and Daddy are like that. They look gross when they kiss’
Emily - age 8
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‘Love is what’s in the room with you at Christmas if you stop opening presents and listen.’
Bobby - age 7 (Wow!)
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‘If you want to learn to love better, you should start with a friend who you hate,’
Nikka - age 6
(we need a few million more Nikka’s on this planet)
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‘Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt, then he wears it everyday..’
Noelle - age 7
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‘Love is like a little old woman and a little old man who are still friends even after they know each other so well.’
Tommy - age 6
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‘During my piano recital, I was on a stage and I was scared. I looked at all the people watching me and saw my daddy waving and smiling.
He was the only one doing that. I wasn’t scared anymore.’
Cindy - age 8
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‘My mummy loves me more than anybody
You don’t see anyone else kissing me to sleep at night.’
Clare - age 6
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‘Love is when Mummy gives Daddy the best piece of chicken.’
Elaine-age 5
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‘Love is when Mummy sees Daddy smelly and sweaty and still says he is handsomer than Robert Redford.’
Chris - age 7
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‘Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone all day’
Mary Ann - age 4
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‘I know my older sister loves me because she gives me all her old clothes and has to go out and buy new ones.’
Lauren - age 4
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‘When you love somebody, your eyelashes go up and down and little stars come out of you.’ (what an image)
Karen - age 7
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‘Love is when Mummy sees Daddy on the toilet and she doesn’t think it’s gross.’
Mark - age 6
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‘You really shouldn’t say ‘I love you’ unless you mean it. But if you mean it, you should say it a lot. People forget.’
Jessica - age 8
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And the final one — Author and lecturer Leo Buscaglia once talked about a con test he was asked to judge.
The purpose of the con test was to find the most caring child.
The winner was a four year old child whose next door neighbor was an elderly gentleman who had recently lost his wife.
Upon seeing the man cry, the little boy went into the old gentleman’s yard, climbed onto his lap, and just sat there.
When his Mother asked what he had said to the neighbour, the little boy said,
‘Nothing, I just helped him cry’
